5 Ways To Get Over A Jerk
5 WAYS TO GET OVER A JERK
Currently
experiencing a bad break up? Or your crush is a jerk? Here are the 5 ways that
you could use to get over a guy, or a jerk.
1. You
Are More Than Allowed To Hate Him
Ha!
Some people said that it is better to let it go, no matter what he did to you. Really?
Or more like….. Are you kidding me? What if he wronged you (like what most
jerks will probably do), are you suppose to let it go? The things is, it is
better to hate someone for what they have done to you, later than trying to
accepting the truth and constantly trying to rationalize what he has done. Oh
maybe he did not mean to cheat on me, or oh… maybe he didn’t care much because
he was too occupied with work. No, people, or adults to begin with made actions
with clear conscious mind. They did whatever they did, whatever the reason is. If
someone hurt you, hate them. Say this to yourself… “ who do you think he is to
do that to you?”. Don’t bother to try telling yourself whatever bullshit you
are trying to say to convince yourself. Hate them for whatever they did, let
your emotion occupy your mind and hearts, it will be easier to forget (not
forgive) what they have done.
2. Just
Block Him
Some
people might say it is childish or immature but whatever works for you. I once
believe that it’s not the right thing to do because you let the other person
know how much he affects your life. But, once again whatever works for you. If stop
hearing how he has moved on with his life help you get through the night, do
it. If stop seeing his instagram clubbing oh-my-life-is-so-amazing help you to move
on with your life, then do it. Because, I’ve come to realize that it is better
to show him that he meant so much to you for now (when you block him), but come
back stronger than ever after you have moved on.
3. Sleep
and Eat, or Cry If You Need.
This
works for a lot of people that I know. Sleep helps you to forget about
something for a moment. Eat, helps you to forget about something for a moment. And
cry, well…. After all that time spent on eating and sleeping, it’s time to off
load all the emotions that you had.
4. Be
A Better Version of Yourself
Show
him what he is missing… oh and the fact that you are never coming back. Stop dwelling
in sadness and tears, put on your best dress and a flawless make up for a fun
night out. Show him what kind of life you had after he left, or after what he
did to you. Sometimes with guys, they need to be reminded of what they are
missing or….. More like what they have missed out.
5. There
Are Tons of Fish In The Sea
Yep.
He is a jerk, whoever you are trust me you deserved someone better. There are
so many guys out there that is worth yourself, why would you degrade yourself
and be in misery for someone that is not even worth it? You are worth more than
what you think you are!
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