Time Heals Everything, But Does It Really?
They say time heals everything, but does it really?
I believe almost every
single one of people in the world, especially those who got heart broken at
least once in their lives, have heard of this notion. I for once believe that
it’s true. I saw people in my life moved on from a very bad break up, or broken
relationship, even death. I never really thought about it, because in real life
it is actually true or at least it seems like it’s true. Only recently, I started
question myself…does time really heal your wound or loss? Something that is so
intangible, that you can not even see or touch. Could it save one soul?
The thing is… it is not
time that heals. Mending a broken heart is no magic, there is no quick method
of how to get rid of the pain. It is not time, you just basically used to the
absence of love or the inexistence of the other person. You are used to not
having them around, you are used them not giving a single shit anymore. When one
got heart broken, the heart stung like a bitch. You put yourself in misery
because you are still not ready to accept the truth. You are not used to the
feeling of loss and emptiness. But, as time goes by, you become someone who
lived with the inexistence of the other person. You live your life knowing they
will never call you back, that they will never come back. You accept the
circumstances, and live with it. When you learned to live with the loss, you
slowly become used to it and you slowly forgot how it feels like having the
other people around. The memory fades, and your heart heals.
Heart broken, losses,
wounds… these are things you could not just go for one good night sleep and be
over with. They need time for you, to get used to all the pain and then learn
how to live on without the things you used to have. So, does time really heal
everything? The answer might be yes and no.
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